Get the Party Started!

the gathering of family and friends, your reception calls for distinctive details that will be lovingly etched into your memory—fragrant flowers, fabulous food, and, of course, excellent entertainment.

Finding that entertainment requires early and careful planning. Start by determining how much you can spend. Because entertainment is vital to your event’s success, professionals agree this is one area where you should not scrimp. After establishing your budget, consider your options, ranging from a string quartet, large orchestra or disc jockey to a comic or custom production.

As guidelines to help you decide, Phoenix musicians say couples will pay from $225 for a single musician to $4,000 and more for a full band. DJs charge between $350 and $3,500 for a four-hour reception (the American Disc Jockey Association reports a national average of $1,500), depending on their experience and the services they provide.

While musicians and DJs are longstanding favorites, a growing number of couples are choosing to kick off their party with a “sparkler,” a 15- or 20-minute performance headlining a stand-up comic, a specially created number that has personal significance, or a song with lyrics written especially for the bride and groom. Anything is possible, as long as it’s well planned and in good taste.

No matter what you choose, remember to balance the size of the musical group with the size of your reception facility. For example, a live band is ideal for a grand ballroom, while your backyard calls for a smaller ensemble, such as a jazz quartet, a flute and keyboard duo, or the angelic sounds of a harpist. A couple can honor their cultural heritage by including options such as a bagpipe player or a mariachi band.

It is also helpful to consider the demographics of your guests. Rock ‘n’ roll is appropriate for younger groups; good background music fits more mature crowds. Mixed audiences may enjoy the interactive entertainment of a DJ, who can fill requests based on the mood and varied tastes of the crowd.

Choose a professional who has extensive wedding reception experience, can handle various situations and will work well with caterers, photographers and other wedding professionals.

The pros recommend meeting with the person or group you select at the reception facility itself, to discuss specifics and avoid potential disasters. For example, if your reception is at an historic location, there may be restrictions on dancing, electrical usage or sound level. You should ensure that the loud music of any style doesn’t prompt neighbors to call police because their fine china is dancing on the shelves.

If your wedding is outside, a tent or other attractive shelter will be needed to protect musicians and their instruments. Be sure there is ample cold water on hand to keep the musicians from becoming parched.

As part of your planning, book your entertainment as soon as possible. For Phoenix weddings “in season”(October through May), allow one year in advance for the most popular entertainers. For other dates, a six-month lead is highly recommended.

Remember, musicians are part of your professional wedding team. Be sure they communicate with your caterer and wedding coordinator so the party comes off without a hitch. You, your groom and your guests will remember your reception happily for the rest of your lives.

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